Quoth the Spearhead

From the Spearhead

However, what kind of social dominance can have guys that are brainwashed since children to believe that women like chumps?

The male protagonist does good stuff out of the kindness of his heart, but the real Nice Guys ™ just do it because they are begging for vag. And women know it, and are repulsed by their lack of testicular fortitude.

I would say that “begging for vag” might be a bit harsh, but the gist is much the same. I think that the Nice Guy ™ is just looking to be loved. Vag may be a part of it but the need isn’t necessarily so crass. However these two quotes go along well with my prior posts. Whether from parents or the culture at large boys take in the message that women like chumps (A.K.A. Nice Guys ™) and so fashion their lives to be one. After all, men have an innate need for companionship and because of that much of what we do is at least partially an attempt to fill that need.

Its also another example of men thinking that women look for the same things in a partner that we do. Men want someone pleasant, laid back, non-confrontational, loyal and reliable (among others of course) so we try to be those things despite how detrimental it is to us because we truly believe that those qualities are desirable.


5 Responses to “Quoth the Spearhead”

  1. 1 Alkibiades
    December 23, 2009 at 6:41 PM

    I like your last paragraph. That is a very astute observation.

  2. December 26, 2009 at 4:26 PM

    Hmmmm, respectful, get-up-and-get-it-done already, can put out multiple times a day, cooks and hires someone to clean…
    You forgot a few characteristics 😉


    Erik, I aimed highed. I wouldn’t settle for less than I deserved. Believeing in your choices makes the opposite sex see EXACTLY who you are – kiss a few frogs first, only then will you find your princess 🙂

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